A story about "Jesus Camp" — 1 year ago
I grew up a Christian, although not in the same denomination as is documented here, nor with quite the same extreme religious right political-church connections. But many of the scenes were familiar and made me extremely sad.
The scene where the little girl was preparing herself to hand a tract to a stranger in a bowling alley was all too familiar. While we never handed out tracts, I have countless memories of being completely torn and nervous about “sharing the gospel” with people…being riddled with guilt if I didn’t, and riddled with shame and embarrassment if I did. It wasn’t until I left Christianity that I was finally able to spend time with people…loved ones and strangers alike…without having to deal with the distraction of thoughts of their salvation and how I should help them not go to hell while also not wanting to insult them or treat them like lesser human beings or people I should somehow pity. The freedom to enjoy and love people without such maddening thoughts is something I feel thankfulness for each and every day.
What made the most upset was to see these beautiful, passionate children having their passion directed to something that we’re not sure is true. I kept wondering what lifelong joy these children could have experienced if their passion and excitement had been invested in something that could have served them their whole life long, like literature, or music, or science, or art. Anything but a religious belief system that impresses upon them the fear of eternal pain and suffering and guilt about the sin of telling ghost stories (or any of the other harmless things labeled “sin” that those children should be allowed to enjoy). Even if a child decides to set aside something like sports or art later in life, they likely will have fond memories of it.
I understand parents wanting to raise their children in their belief system, be it Christianity or atheism or what have you, but I have more respect for sects of Christianity that require their children to be 13-16 before they claim the faith. Personally, I think people should more like 25 before they claim a faith. Humans should be educated about as many different belief systems that exist as possible before making a choice. Adults taking advantage of a child’s most impressionable years to indoctrinate them is simply unfair to the child. Yes, the child can make a different choice later, but the emotional scars created by fear tactics and guilt trips will remain with them long after a possible change in belief system. I can attest to this. To indoctrinate them with the ideas that they should lessen the suffering of themselves and others as much as possible is certainly something universal we can teach our children. But to wrap it in such a complicated package doesn’t make sense to me.
















