SPOILER ALERT
I really wanted to like this film. I think both stars are highly talented. It was decent, it kept me wondering, it surprised me. I did feel sympathy/empathy for the Robin Williams character. I think Toni Collette is a great actor.
However… I felt it left me hanging. I understand after seeing the note at the end that this was based off a true story and there was no real resolution. However this still kind of annoyed me. I realize that’s unfair, but that’s still my feeling. I’m not saying I need a Hollywood wrapped up every loose end with a happy ending sort of thing – but I need to at least feel that things have moved ahead/changed/grown.
I just felt that i hadn’t really learned anything, that nothing had changed.
Robin Williams is still lonely & as unsure of his relationship as he was at the beginning. His relationship with his dad is sort of hinted at but not explored in depth – why is he even in the film? We still don’t know (though we assume he’s not) if the boy existed. We get a hint of why Toni Collete’s character does what she does (why pick him, why fake the kid, why fake blindness, what happened to her as a kid?) – but no real answer.
Also, the laughing off/ignoring/accepting offensive namecalling was rather jarring and kept annoying me. The “I am a cute Chink girl” was really offensive & unnecessary. I understood his initial comment explaining that his dad was racist – but the way she tried to accept that terminology just bothered me. (I’ve never really believed in that “reclaiming negative terms” and “it’s OK when I call myself a bad name”. And I know the homophobic jokes are supposed to imply a ignorant teenager who doesn’t know better but to see Robin Williams just laugh them off and let them continue is kind of annoying.
In summary, worth watching to see how it unfolds and to discover the secrets, or if you like the main starts, but other than that not too satisfying.