Woo… just read some of the other reviews, and it looks like I liked this book more than the majority. Or at least, felt more strongly about it, since so many are just “mehs”. I don’t think this collection had as many strong, stand-out essays as his others. But I also think that Sedaris is best listened-to; his pacing sometimes doesn’t translate to the page (or at least my head) and it certainly improves his work. Given that, I still thought this was a good collection that’s worth reading, if only for “The Smoking Section,” his diary of quitting smoking while staying in Japan, along with reflections on how he started smoking and what happens afterwards. It’s a nice comparison to learning French in “Me Talk Pretty One Day.” His essay on their awful neighbor, Helen, was another really good one. And there are several airplane/airport/hotel situations that you’ll appreciate if travel much. Or if you’ve ever just really hated the person you had to sit next to. Or if you’re a competitive cryer. Oh, and if you’re dealing with mortality, refer to the chapter on the gift of a skeleton… I cannot remember titles for the life of me!

Overall, the collection seems to focus less on his siblings and parents and more on his life with Hugh. I was lucky to hear him read from these essays while they were still being published, and those memories sort of mixed with reading them. I keep drawing comparisons between his and Hugh’s relationship and mine with my husband… it never comes out sounding right, but I see strange similarities. Now I just need to publish and make money selling books. :)

Okay, so back on track – this was a good book. It’s not what I’d start on if I’d never read David Sedaris. But it’s a good follow-up.

Why is the title called “Indefinite Leave to Remain”? Was that a working title? What does that even mean?